What is parental responsibility?

Parental responsibility encompasses all the rights, duties, powers and responsibilities a parent has in relation to a child. This includes decisions about education, healthcare, religion and day-to-day upbringing. Without legal parental responsibility, a non-biological parent may face obstacles in areas such as giving medical consent or collecting a child from school.

Pathways to parenthood – Home insemination vs. clinic conception

1. Conception at a licensed fertility clinic

If a child is conceived through artificial insemination at a licensed UK fertility clinic, the non-birth parent’s legal status will depend on their relationship to the birth mother and whether they’ve completed the proper forms at the clinic.

• Married or in a civil partnership: If the birth mother is married to or in a civil partnership with their partner at the time of conception, that partner is automatically recognised as the child’s second legal parent, assuming no objections were raised by the birth mother.
• Unmarried couples: If the couple is not married or in a civil partnership, the non-birth parent can still be recognised as a legal parent if both parties sign the appropriate consent forms (typically WP and PP forms) at the clinic prior to conception.

The second legal parent can then be named on the child’s birth certificate, and this will confer upon them parental responsibility.

However, being a legal parent does not automatically confer parental responsibility, unless the above applies or they later acquire parental responsibility through other legal routes (more below).

2. Home insemination

Home insemination, though more private and often more accessible, has different legal consequences. In these cases, the birth mother will always be the legal mother. However, who is considered the second legal parent depends on the legal relationship and whether the sperm donor is known or anonymous.

Unmarried couples: If the couple is not married or in a civil partnership, the sperm donor may be treated as the legal father, especially if his identity is known. The non-birth parent in this scenario is not automatically considered a legal parent, nor do they have parental responsibility by default.

Married or civil partnered couples: A non-birth partner who is married to or in a civil partnership with the birth mother at the time of conception is treated as the second legal parent, can be named on the birth certificate and will have parental responsibility. The sperm donor, in this case, has no legal rights or responsibilities.

How to acquire parental responsibility as a non biological parent

Whether or not a non biological parent is recognised as a legal parent, they may still need to take additional steps to obtain parental responsibility.

1. Being named on the birth certificate

In England and Wales, if the non-birth parent is recognised as a legal parent, they can be named on the birth certificate. For children born after 6 April 2009, this typically grants automatic parental responsibility if the non-birth parent is listed.

To be named, the non-birth parent must attend the birth registration appointment with the birth mother and meet the legal parent criteria outlined above.

2. Parental Responsibility Agreement

A legal parent who is not automatically granted parental responsibility or a step-parent can acquire parental responsibility by entering into a Parental Responsibility Agreement with the birth mother. This is a formal, legal document that must be signed by both parties and witnessed by a court officer. The parties need to be married or in a civil partner and all parents with parental responsibility need to consent.

3. Parental Responsibility Order

If an agreement cannot be reached or the parties are not married, the non-biological parent can apply to the family court for a Parental Responsibility Order. The court will consider the child’s welfare as the paramount concern and evaluate the applicant’s relationship and commitment to the child.

4. Adoption

In situations where the non biological parent is not recognised as a legal parent, particularly after home insemination without legal safeguards, adoption may be the most secure way to obtain full parental rights. A Step-Parent Adoption allows the non-birth parent to become the child’s legal parent permanently, with all associated responsibilities.

Protecting your family’s legal security

Each family formation journey is different, and the law can be complex, especially when biological ties do not exist. To ensure full protection and recognition of your parental rights, it’s essential to get specialist legal advice tailored to your circumstances.

At Sinclair Law, our LGBTQIA+ family law specialists have extensive experience supporting clients through every step of the legal process. Whether you are planning a family, seeking to establish parental responsibility, or navigating a dispute, we are here to help with sensitive, inclusive and expert advice. We are proud sponsors of Proud 2 b Parents.

Key takeaways

• Marital or civil partnership status significantly affects legal parenthood and parental responsibility.
• Conception through a licensed clinic provides greater legal clarity and protection.
• Being named on the birth certificate (as a legal parent) can grant parental responsibility.
• Parental Responsibility Agreements or Court Orders are available options if automatic rights are not in place.
• Adoption may be necessary in certain home insemination situations to secure legal rights.

Personalised advice for non biological parents seeking to securing legal parental responsibility

Contact Sinclair Law today to speak with one of our specialist family solicitors. We’re committed to supporting LGBTQIA+ families at every stage. We are proud sponsors of Proud 2 b Parents.

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