It seems very ‘unromantic’ to make provisions for the breakup of my marriage. How could I go about raising this subject with my partner?
If you have been through divorce previously you will find raising the issue of a Pre-Nup easier to manage. In every Pre-Nuptial that we draft we make it clear from the outset that the purpose of the Agreement is to promote and encourage the marriage rather than to facilitate its breakdown.
There is also provision for you and your spouse to endorse and agree the joint aspiration for the marriage to continue and endure for the rest of your joint lives and it is only in the event that those hopes are not fulfilled and the permanent breakdown of the marriage occurs that recourse to the Agreement is made.
It may be rather an unromantic notion, but those of you who have been through divorce once will consider it pragmatic, practical and sensible.
The advice we give to clients is think with your head, not with your heart and wear your metaphorical business hat at the time have your discussion.